The Natural Alertness of Cats
Cats are naturally very alert creatures. When they experience harm, they tend to become fearful and will choose to keep their distance from the source of danger.
When a cat displays four typical behaviors, it means it has developed a sense of distrust towards you and hopes you will "stop getting close."
1. Hiding or Climbing to High Places
When you approach a cat and it runs away or hides, it indicates that the cat does not want you to come closer. Cats often seek a concealed spot to hide or escape to a high place to observe their surroundings when they feel threatened. This behavior is a way for them to ensure their safety and achieve a sense of psychological calm.
2. Always Keep Your Distance
When a cat encounters someone it does not trust, it will try to maintain a safe distance from that person. Even if the person attempts to get close or touch the cat, the cat will immediately move away. In some cases, the cat may even extend its claws as a warning to deter the person from coming any closer.
This behavior is a natural way for cats to protect themselves and signal their discomfort or mistrust. Understanding this instinct can help cat owners and others respect a cat's boundaries and build a trusting relationship over time.
3. Ears Pinned Back
When a cat pins its ears back, it is usually a sign that the cat feels scared or angry toward someone. By folding its ears flat against its head, the cat is communicating its discomfort and anxiety about the current situation. This behavior serves as a warning to others, signaling that the cat prefers the person to keep their distance.
Recognizing this body language is important for understanding and respecting a cat's emotional state. If you see a cat with its ears pinned back, it's best to give it space and avoid approaching further, allowing the cat to feel safe and calm again.
4. Understanding Cat Hissing and Growling
When a cat emits a hissing or low growling sound, it is issuing a final warning message: "One more step closer, and I will really attack!" At this point, it's important not to attempt any further contact with the cat.
Rebuilding Trust with Your Cat
If, unfortunately, your cat has come to see you as untrustworthy, don't give up easily. There are still proactive steps you can take to rebuild the bond between you and your feline friend.
Spend more time attending to your cat's daily needs and routines. When interacting, speak softly and move gently, showing your cat that you mean no harm. It's equally important not to force physical contact with your cat, allowing them to approach you on their own terms.
Although restoring a loving relationship with your cat may take considerable time and patience, perseverance will eventually pay off. With consistent kindness and understanding, your feline companion will one day open their heart to you once again.
